Hi Graham,
Unfortunately, I disagree with most of your post. But I respect your right to put forth your opinions/comments.
To add to your list of "nitpickers", are doctors, police, teachers, pilots, drivers, soldiers, officers, food producers, and so many more.
Totally agree, they are nitpickers in that in CERTAIN circumstances, clarity is more important than brevity - THAT was my point about nitpickers. There are certain occassions where being nitpicky about words IS very important and necessary.Would you say that an on-line discussion board (not a debate board as I understand it) is an IMPORTANT place for communication of information or a speakeasy type location where friendly/amicable discussion can take place. BTW I am a doctor, have been a teacher and a police officer, driver and soldier/officer. When imparting information as an integral part of the job when ACCURACY if the most important factor, often CLARITY suffers. I have spent a lot of time in training so that I understand a certain number of terms. When used in the appropriate context (typically by someone of similar training) the message can be brief as the numerous qualifications surrounding the phrase/words are understood implicitly due to the training. Popularisers of science struggle with this very issue. The untrained person doesn't have the background knowledge to be able to understand the complexity and issues about the subject. Richard Feynman was on a talk show when a caller asked him what magnetism was (if memory serves correctly). Feynman said that he couldn't answer. The caller asked if he (Feynman) didn't understand magnetism. Feynman replied that the level of knowledge of the caller was not sufficient for him to be able to explain it. When I wrote my thesis I had to put into the appendix MY definition of the terms 'melting' and 'freezing' as it was not the COMMON understanding of the words, but rather more detailed. I recall it took half a page of explanation per term. A discussion board such as this one, I would suggest, is not the venue in which to go into such detail. In my thesis I had to be a nitpicker as it was the correct venue to do so. I would not do so here for the reasons previously stated.
Perhaps, people who were not born English-speaking. Those who have to resort to dictionaries to make sure they understand what native English-speakers are talking about. If , I assume you refer to such people as nitpickers, then so be it.
When the situation calls for it, go for it. In those situations, then yes the commentator would be a nitpicker - and rightly so. Nitpicking when the situation does NOT call for it (subjective of course) is inappropriate.
You also mention guidelines of communication as A-B-C. But you omit the other half important part of communication. The "receiver". Is it wrong for the listener to make sure he understands what you are saying?
And, if he questions your meaning, you just brush him off as "nitpicker"?
It seems as if you seriously misunderstood my meaning. However, you are asking questions appropriate to the discussion and in an appropriate tenor. To make strongly emotional comments about semantics and how the goalposts keep changing (e.g. due to revised definitions) as if it was intentional in the first place to cause controversy (as opposed to amicable discussion) changes the original tenor. Asking MANY questions seeking understanding may be nitpicky, but in an appropriate manner. Seeking to cause argument, and nitpicking with that intent, is (in my mind) inappropriate.
You can see how easy it is to rapidly become more verbose in attempting to cover as many ambiguities as possible. Unfeasible on a 'discussion' board'.
There are some more points you mentioned I want to reply to , such as your downplaying of laws and politicians, but let's just say I disagree with them.
Do you think that lawmakers do NOT make laws that can benefit themselves? - at least in some cases.
I don't see any reason why you imply Bill is a nitpicker. His desire to be clear about "discussion" and "debate" is his call. Not mine or whoever.
I attempted to specifically NOT imply anything about anyone, but take several comments used in this thread and many others to make the point about communication. Obviously I was too brief and should have spent many thousand more words in attempting to make myself clear - but then no-one would read it.
Oh, another nitpicking of mine. I had to look up your word contentious.
But could not find "versused ".
Typo - should read 'versed'. Thank you. And I am sure that there are many more typos here. Limited time to check.
Would you agree, we, perhaps, should agree to disagree.
not sure as to what we are disagreeing on.
Moving on................
Thanks and have a good day.