I am looking for some advice on how to control DOF. To give a bit of background, lets look at the attached picture below, my goal was to really isolate Olaf, but I really was not able to do so with my equipment - D5300 and 18-140mm f3.5-f5.6. I had a vision in my mind and could not seem to get it to work on the camera.
I played with 140 mm and 18mm Focal Lengths (and their corresponding widest apertures), along with moving closer and further to Olaf. In the end, nothing seemed to produce the image I was looking for - Olaf in sharp focus with a very out of focus background.
I guess I would like to know a starting point in terms of minimizing depth of field. For example, I have found the Sunny 16 rule to be quite helpful when outside and walking around. I always try to dial back my camera to this point as I walk around. It is just a good starting point for my settings and then I can dial in as needed, does anything like that exist for DOF? I also know that I could use a DOF calculator, but I do not always have time to pull out my phone and calculate (in this case only had a few minutes before someone else took over Olaf). So what can be my starting point e.g. - Max Zoom and Aperture and minimum Distance.
Given the variables I can control I believe the following are in order of impact on DOF - Aperture, Focal Length or Distance to Subject. So in my case, perhaps my equipment was not optimum and my 35mm f1.8 Lens lesson should have been the answer (I did not have this with me at the time) Any thoughts on how I could approach this situation and in the future would be very helpful. Thanks for the help.