I've managed to dodge shooting at weddings of friends and family by telling folks that "I don't do weddings" for quite some time. The trouble for me this time is that it's my daughter who is getting married and she won't take no for an answer.
Just to complicate things a touch more, the wedding will be in Japan, at the end of the summer, so I have to haul everything I need along. That's not as bad as it sounds, as we are planning to spend a few weeks there touring around, so the cameras and lenses are coming along, regardless. Weight is not going to be an issue either as the airline we are using has a very generous baggage allowance.
The reason that they don't want a local Japanese wedding photographer is that she and my wife have seen the albums that the Japanese wedding photographers produce, and they don't want to go that way as they both feel that these are "tacky" by North American standards.
Just to complicate things a touch more, Japanese weddings are a bit different that the Canadian ones I've been to. There is the ceremony, a post-ceremony meal and a party in the evening. There will be a rehearsal, so at least I won't be walking in totally blind. I own the equipment, so I won't have to go out and buy anything new except for a hard sided travel case for the lighting equipment.
In addition to the cameras, I was thinking of taking a couple of light stands, a couple of Speedlights (SB900 and SB600), RF triggers (PocketWizards), flash meter, tripod, batteries and chargers as well as an external battery pack for the SB900. I am thinking of taking a couple of white convertible umbrellas as modifiers for the more formal shots plus the Lumiquest and Gary Fong modifiers for the on-camera work at the meal / party. I'll probably take a couple of empty sandbags and fill them on-site if I need to weight the light stands. I have no intention of taking my studio lights and softboxes; that would be overkill.
So, what am I missing in my list? I realize I'll have to get a hard travel case for the lighting gear. We are going to be on different three flights to get there (and three to get home again), so I'll have to buy one of those. I see that there are padded and unpadded ones; any thoughts on which ones will be better?