Originally Posted by
Manfred M
I think what you are running into Arnold is human nature; if someone is interested in "Likes" about their image, I suggest they post in social media. When I post here, I am looking for other's opinions on what works and does not work with the piece I have posted. That doesn't mean I have to agree (or disagree) with the posting, but it gives me something else to think about.
My experience with photo clubs, in the past, was not good and I found them inward looking and centered around cliques within the club. I avoided them for the better part of 40 years after those experiences. I was lucky enough to have found a couple of fairly professional clubs where members were willing to teach and help newcomers to the club. My photography has gotten a lot stronger since I became involved in them.
It's more about how something is said, rather than what is said. Critiques should help the photographer learn and not go away feeling put down. The problem, especially in the internet age is that being polite and helpful has gone by the wayside. There is also a problem with people that are used to getting "Likes" on social media who feel that they are wonderful photographers and anything other than praise is taken as a personal insult. Frankly, a positive comment from a highly respected photographer has more meaning to me than a 100 likes from people who have limited knowledge of the subject.