Although the following article is called Bokeh Test, and it comes as close as any to defining bokeh (sometimes spelled boke), or at least it shows what it can be. There are no measurements for bokeh so it is somewhat subjective, however it is real, and bad cases of bokeh are really bad.
The article uses testing to demonstrate what bokeh is (I've referenced this article several times, and I suspect that many people don't follow it right through - it took me a few tries).
http://www.rickdenney.com/bokeh_test.htm