Originally Posted by
GrumpyDiver
I wonder if we are misreading the question and should replace the work "aperture" with "size of the light source".
A small light source, like a small flash or event the sun is highly directional, i.e. light travels in a straight line and causes harsh shadows.
If you take a large light source, like an overcast day or a softbox that is close to the subject, light travels in all directions and any shadows that are cast tend to be fairly soft. That is why I have never understood people that use softboxes that are really far away from the subject. They start to act like a point source and all benefits of a soft, diffuse light source are lost, and harsh shadows occur.