I'll leave the focus calculations to someone else
I was surprised at that aperture, but have no idea how we would know if it were wrong.
I believe 5.6 is compatible with CS3, but you have to look quite hard to find that confirmation.
I bet if you followed the instructions carefully (including keeping the old files so you can reverse out if I am wrong), you will find it works. I think the NR is better on 5.x from 4.x.
If CS5 is close by, I guess you could wait ...
Cheers,