Originally Posted by
DanK
Zone metering or exposure fusion.
If the dynamic range is manageable and don't need multiple images, you can find the brightest area you don't want to blow out (as Glenn said, forget about specular highlights), meter off that, and then try for a start opening up 2 stops. You can do the same with the dark end instead, as Glenn suggested, but obviously closing down rather than opening up. Depending on the illumination of the scene, 2 stops may not be exactly right, but you can quickly adjust after a test shot or two.
For blending multiple exposures, I much prefer exposure fusion to HDR. Google it if you are not familiar with it. For that purpose, I use a Lightroom plugin called Lightroom Enfuse.