I think it's a little deeper than that. Alcohol doesn't make anyone more beautiful, it just temporarily lowers your standards and barriers. Why can't you reach the same destination with a little mental flexibility?
I think it's cause/effect confusion. People with good lives are perceived going out to bars and drink with their friends, so people go drink to find friends. Speaking as a former bouncer, I have ample evidence against that "wisdom."
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To my mind, the friends should come before the lowering of boundaries, by any means. To a stranger, you are potentially someone they don't have to care about, and thus will have fewer qualms about using. Putting yourself in a vulnerable position when surrounded by people you trust (assuming they've genuinely earned and deserve it) is no risk at all.
And, full disclosure: my thoughts on this do not come from
always handling myself honorably around firewater. Everyone screws up. Trick is to land softly.
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