Thanks for letting me know Andre. I did some more research and it turns out we are not freaks. I totally forgot about viewfinder magnification factors. With my 6D the magnification is 0.71. Magnification is how large the viewfinder scene looks using a 50 mm lens compared to using the naked eye. Therefore I have to use a focal length of 50/0.71 = 70 mm to make the viewfinder scene look the same as what I see with my eye.
I gave my cropped sensor T2i (550D) to my daughter so cannot check it out, but the spec sheet indicates a magnification of 0.87. This number is misleading because the magnification is not just from the viewfinder but also from the 1.6 magnification associated with the crop factor. So my eye should have matched the viewfinder at 50/.87 = 57 mm, which would be equivalent to 91 mm full frame. So my memory was fuzzy about the exact numbers but I did remember correctly that I always had to go much higher than the 50 mm full frame equivalent for the viewfinder scene to look as large as what I saw without the viewfinder.
Of course this does not explain the issue of subjective perspective differences looking at photos taken at different focal lengths. I do believe that 70 mm looks about right to me, but as indicated in previous post the difference between 50 and 70 in perspective is subtle and the review of the photos was totally unscientific.