Because he got up in the morning, showered, shaved and put on a suit like any other day............ where as she got up before dawn, showered, shaved, washed hair, got him and his best man and ushers organized, sorted the bridesmaids, made sure the place settings were ok, liaised with the hotel manager and chef that everything was in place, had her hair and make up done, calm Stepmum, Dad and Inlaws, check the weather, get into a wedding dress that needs the help of 5 people, pose for an hour with the photographer, then need the five people that helped her into the dress help her to go to the loo, made sure the flowers arrived on time and the cake was delivered and set up, then was able to spend 2 minutes alone with her thoughts that her mother was not there to share her special day as she passed away before she could see her walk down the aisle..........Andy may have been in the background in the photos but he was always there by her side....