Originally Posted by
JHzlwd
I avoid wedding photography as if it were ebola. Being an amateur it's easy saying "No" but am occasionally inveigled into it. Expectations are always high yet, you tend to be regarded as something of a nuisance by everyone. My last gig was a couple of years ago - a very expensive, gala affair. These people could have hired pro's but wanted me in there as a favor to them because they like my photography. Yes, it's possible I was seduced by flattery. There were weird rules. The photographer was to be totally discrete at all times: no flash, no posed photos, no being obvious about anything. It was tough. The ambient lighting was terrible with lots of backlight from late afternoon sun and fluorescent overhead. It was a stressful, miserable time for me while everyone else had the fun.
Well, I got lucky and give all the credit to Nikon and their D800 in this case. It nailed every exposure. Even the ISO 3200's looked fantastic. Not one dud and the client was delighted. A miracle for sure. Never, ever again.
A couple of "pro" colleagues have gotten out of the wedding business with some of the reasons having to do with situations as described in the link (and this is Canada where like to think we are not as prone to litigation as our US friends). One of them says the biggest problem is the client often refusing to pay off the contract. As the bills for the event pour in, the poor photographer is apt to get pushed down the list of creditors while the client decides to content himself and the rest of the wedding party with snapshots taken by relatives and friends. He says pursuing this in the courts only besmears your reputation with accusations you are the sort of mean spirited ba... - er - rascal who picks on newlyweds and their kindly, aging parents.
Best wishes,
k.