OK, using the shot below lets see if I understand this.
This is shot #2 above as it came from the camera with default LR adjustments, resized and converted to jpg.
The flower is actually quite small approx 1.5"
The background is white matt board
The sun is behind and to the left but filtered through a large shade tree that is behind and above the flowerbed.
Here's how I see it. Let me know if and where I am getting it wrong.
1. I'm thinking that this is purley reflective lighting. If the matt board was not behind the flower, I would have had backlighting issues with the sun coming through the tree branches
2. I spot metered on the main flower. I'm not sure if the flower would be considered lighter or darker than medium gray, but I'm thinking any part of the main flower would be lighter than medium gray which would make me think I should have +EC, but not the full 2 stops. Anyway I tried +EC for this but kept getting blinkies so ended up with no EC. The result is that the background is too dark (in spots) and the flower is washed out.
3. I suppose one problem could be that there was light filtering through the leaves in the tree and spilling onto the white matt board which caused the dark patches on the white background. I still do not understand why the flower is washed out though. If I am understanding this correctly and if I metered correctly then without EC applied the flower should actually be too dark. Unless the flower is actually darker than medium gray?????
4. I'm going to experiment, but based on what you said above, I think I should have metered the matt board and then dialed in +2??? It seems more natural to meter on the subject though.
I'm going to leave it at that for now. If I'm way off base and it's too hard to straigten me out, just tell me where you would meter for a shot with these conditions and what EC you would expect to have to dial in to get a white background and a properly exposed (or recoverable) flower.
Wendy