I don't think so, because the normal-lens formula doesn't work with macro lenses near minimum working distances. I think the reason is that the actual focal length at that distance is less than the nominal. Brian Valentine (Lord V on numerous forums), a superb macro photographer, did some tests with a 100 mm lens and tubes. If I recall, 68mm approximately doubled magnification. I'd have to google to find it. However, you're right that if you want higher levels, you need to use something other than one set of tubes, such as bellows or an MP-E 65. That's why I suggested that there are two separate issues: the maximum magnification James can get with his tubes, and his not getting high-enough quality results with tubes. The former problem can be solved with an MP-E 65, but that lens won't solve any problems of technique.
I don't often shoot with more than 36mm of extension, but to give an approximate idea of scale, here is an old shot with a 60mm lens and 68mm of tubes. My fingernail gives some idea of scale. Plenty of magnification for many bug shots, but I suspect not for spider mites.