Sandy,
Firstly, I would question why you want to get the entire frog in focus? My own personal opinion is that the picture will have more impact when it's a closeup similar to these (I'm referring to yours) if part is out of focus (but of course not the eyes).
Secondly, there a two ways you can increase the depth of focus if you wish;
a) Close down the aperture and compensate by increasing the ISO OR upping the lighting (flash). There are different ways you can achieve the flash amount.
Downside is that increasing ISO
'may' produce too much noise in the image for your liking. Experiment.
b) You can make the subject smaller within the framing by moving away/zooming and then crop the image in post.
Downside is that cropping
'may' reduce the image IQ too much for your liking and purpose for what it is intended for.
If you can just get an angle and a DoF that gets both eyes sharp you have a winner
These two may give you an idea of what we are up against when wanting to get close in and the challenge DoF gives us. From what I recall these were not cropped much at all and both shot at f/13.