This shot was taken a couple seconds before the original post. I wanted to try a vignette effect, and I was too close on the original to apply the vignette without affecting the wings, which I have done even on this one. Aside from the Vignette and border, and the usual RAW tweaks and sharpening I desaturated the yellows.
Geoff, I will have to do some reading up on Elements in order to find the correct selection tool in order to try your method, but I think I will try it on some different shots. I'm worn out on these for awhile and will give it a rest.
I'm still not there with this one but I think I like it better than the other 2.
I've leaned some valuable PP tips here, and also as I go through these photos realize that I should have put more thought into composition when shooting. Not that easy with butterflies, but in this case there were hundreds flying around, so I think I would have had the time.
Thanks again for the feedback everyone.