This Metellina segmenta male approached a female when she was feeding, which is normal practice with this species, but she wasn't interested and eventually scampered off to hide under a nearby leaf.
Some hoverflies, however, were more successful. Eristalis nemorum.
Sphaerophoria scripta
The male kept placing his front 'foot' on her eye so she used her leg to move his foot back a bit, as is happening with this scene.