To be frank, although I expect that two stops down, nearly all of my lenses will be sharper than when wide open - I wouldn't know what an Aperture/Sharpness curve looked like for any of my lenses: I tested most of them in the field and then bought the ones which suited me to make photos, not to use as a lab experiment.
Sure, nearly all of the lenses that I have are 'fast' and some are 'extremely fast', and certainly none are at there sharpest wide open, but (also quoting the OP), for "outdoor portraits" the butterfly swimmer fulfilled the brief and was certainly sharp enough for both publication and sale - the shot didn't have be 'the sharpest technically possible' - not many shots do.
I think that, especially now in the digital world, there's a passion for the minutia of, for want of an all encompassing phrase - pixel peeping - and that is at the expense of what once was, the essence of Photography.
That's not a criticism, simply an observation: we each get joy from from different elements of The Craft - my joy basically, and predominately is: nailing The Shot.
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