Though OoF Background - and - extremely shallow DoF employing the use of large Apertures are related, the former is not
solely depended on the latter: the element of Subject to Background Distance(*1) is a consideration and whilst not always possible to control for Candid Portraiture, it's good to remember that if you can get the Subject(s) far enough away from the background you can use a relatively small aperture and still have an OoF background.
"Italian Passion"
(EOS5D Series Camera; 24 to 105/4, at about 95mm, F/5.6 or F/6.3)
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Footnote (*1) to be technically correct, it is the
ratio of the distances -
Camera to Subject :: Subject to Background