Mary,
Frankly, you just have to stop pussy-footing around with these shots. Just cut the darn thing off and shoot it indoors, or better still, dig up the whole plant (or just pull it out)
Jut kidding of course -- tell you what though -- I was trying a tricky shot in a public park the other day, and some flowers / branches were in the way -- and the model started breaking them all off before I could get her to stop!